How Much Should You Tip at a Strip Club?

If you’re planning your first visit to a strip club or even if you’ve been a few times – you’ve probably wondered: How much should you tip at a strip club? Tipping is a big part of the experience, and doing it right ensures you’re respectful, appreciated, and having a good time without overspending.

The good news? You don’t need to break the bank to be a good guest. This guide will help you understand the basics of tipping at a strip club, so you can enjoy your night confidently and respectfully.

Why Tipping Matters

Tipping is a big part of the strip club experience. The dancers, bartenders, servers, and staff all play a role in making your night fun, smooth, and memorable. More importantly, tipping shows respect for the performers and the effort they put into entertaining guests. And at places like Glass Slipper, where the vibe is chill and the performances are top-notch, tipping shows that you appreciate the effort.

Plus, good tippers usually get better energy and attention. Just saying.

How Much Should You Tip Dancers?

Stage Performances

When dancers are performing on stage, it’s standard to tip about $10 or above per dance if you’re sitting near the stage. You can tip more if you’re impressed or want to show appreciation. A simple rule of thumb: If you’re close enough to make eye contact, be tipping.

Don’t throw coins or make a scene; discreet, respectful tipping is best.

At Glass Slipper, dancers often interact with the crowd, especially the generous ones up front. You don’t have to go overboard—but don’t be the person enjoying the show with empty hands.

Lap Dances

Most lap dances in Boston start around $30 depending on the dancer and the club, but it’s polite to tip an extra $5 – $20 depending on how long the dance lasted and how much you enjoyed it. If the dancer was particularly engaging or respectful, tipping toward the higher end is a nice gesture.

What About the Bar Staff?

Just like at any bar, it’s good etiquette to tip at least $1–$2 per drink or 15–20% of your tab if you’re running a tab or ordering bottle service. If a server is regularly checking on you or going out of their way, be generous – it goes a long way.

Bartenders and cocktail servers are working hard to keep your night running smoothly, especially when the place is packed. Show them some love.

Other Folks to Tip

• Doormen or Hosts – If someone helps you skip a line, get a better seat, or hook you up with a table, a $5–$10 tip is appreciated.
  
• Bathroom Attendants – If someone hands you a towel or gum or keeps the restroom fresh, drop a $1 or $2 in the jar. It’s a small gesture that goes a long way.

Tipping in the VIP Room

VIP rooms or private sessions come with a bigger price tag, so tipping is even more important here. After paying the club’s VIP fee, it’s respectful to tip the dancer at least 10–20% of what you paid, especially if the service was outstanding.

At clubs like Glass Slipper, VIP rooms are more personal and relaxed, so tipping generously can also mean better vibes and service.

Quick Tipping Tips

• Bring cash (especially singles) ✅
• Tip dancers, bartenders, and anyone who helps you ✅
• Be respectful—tip for the experience, not just the performance ✅
• Don’t be cheap at the stage or after a lap dance ❌
• Never tip with coins (yes, people still try this…) ❌
• Don’t ask for free dances. ❌

Final Thoughts

Tipping at a strip club doesn’t have to be awkward or confusing. In Boston, and especially at a well-known spot like Glass Slipper, it’s all about good energy, mutual respect, and having a great time. If you’re cool and courteous, and you tip fairly, you’re bound to have an amazing night.

So if you’re heading out in Boston soon, keep this in mind: bring some cash, be respectful, tip well, and enjoy the show.